Afghanistan is not much of a culture shock to any Indian. And certainly it didn't pose a threat (culturally that is) to a mallu, born in bengal, partly educated in mumbai and working in delhi. It is almost 4 years now since I first set foot in Kabul. I didn't know what to expect, that first time. The media certainly hadn't given much confidence to make the trip. But it was my first 'international' trip. The passport had been express delivered within 7 days of applying and the visa had been stamped on without much hassle. As soon as I knew I was going, I had shot a letter off to the contact point in the client office in Kabul. Not with queries about anything on the work that my colleague and I were going to do. But, about all the other worries. Where would we stay? Anything particular we should carry, not carry? What's the weather like? Can we eat during the day? The last question was suitably placed because the Ramadan period had just begun - a month of fasting between sunrise and sunset.
I had tried growing a beard in preperation. The beard, I later realised, per se wouldn't have saved me by any means from Afghan anti-government elements except maybe the shabbiness could have resulted in disinteresting anybody with malign intentions. The Taliban regulation said that the beard should be long enough to stick out some at the end of a fist clasped around it at the chin.

We flew Ariana Airlines the national Afghan carrier. Though we did not expect, surprisingly there were women attendents on the flight, wearing caps that had an attached netted veil. We also didn't expect to be served any food in flight owing to the fasting period. But there was a meal served for those who wanted one. The flight was a quick one, just one hour and forty minutes. I felt thrilled just to think that we were travelling over Pakistan and over the Hindu Kush. Fifteen minutes before landing a co-passenger pointed outside at a dune like span of mountains. These were the famed Tora-Bora caves area in the White Mountain range that was believed to be housing Bin Laden and hundreds of Taliban who had fled the international forces. The announcement then came in Dari and English, we were about to land. Looking out we could see the plane descending past brown mud coloured mountains with white snow toppings. Settlements and roads came into view. It was like a large maze of walls, an expanse of brown everywhere. The city seemed to be very flat with hardly any buildings that were two storied or more.
Kabul was much colder than we had expected. As soon as we walked down to the terminal the cold wind was almost unbearable and I had to pull out a jacket to cover up . At the airport, we learnt that there were no conveyor belts at the airport yet and so passengers had to scrouge through the stacks of luggage that the attendents laid out. After literally pushing through a crowd of baggage hunters and recovering the ones we owned, we finally made it out to the placard weilding driver who was there to pick us up. We checked into Gandamack Lodge, a quaint place, high fortified walls (which we realised is not unique to any hotel or residential building in Afghanistan), european style fireplaces and display of swords and guns and other weaponry. Later we learnt that the Lodge was formerly Bin Laden's fourth wife's home, and he had liked to stay there on all visits. That fact surely added an air of mystique to the place. Though the entire setup at the Gandamack looked old fashioned, the amenities, the meal menu and the associated costs were sure to put you in modern times. If you were a reporter planning to get to the battle front lines, the lodge even offered body armours that you could rent out.
The menu was very European and after a week of spaghetti this, and bolognaise that, my colleague and I were looking for something Afghan. On our way back and forth from work we had seen the Haji Baba Restaurant quite close to the Gandamack. We made up our minds to go to go there in the evening when the fasting period was over. During the day we were eating in the office canteen where it was okay for foreigners to eat. During Ramadan working hours were reduced by an hour for the locals so that they could rest and also prepare for the break of fast in the evening. The Afghans also woke up early before sunrise to eat a little something before the fast began.
We stepped out at 7pm from the Gandamack. The streets were dark and empty. The security manager at the client office had warned of possible kidnapping attempts on foreigners and had even circulated a list of do's and don'ts in case one got kidnapped. The things on the list sprang up inside my head as we stepped out of the hotel gates. The Indian Embassy was right around the corner and we tried making conversation with the guards outside. They were Afghan but could converse in Hindi and we asked them about how safe it was to just walk down to this restaurant. They laughed a bit but didn't say a word in encouragement. We didnt know what to make of that but we decided to go anyways. As we walked down the narrow, dark potholed footpath land mines and kidnappings occupied my mind. We made it to Haji Baba without any difficulty. There was only one other table at the restaurant that was occupied. The menu had only various kinds of kababs and meat dishes listed on it. Any dish we ordered would come with Afghan rice pulao (buttered rice with fried raisins, nuts and carrot shreds), Afghan naan (large 2 foot long tandoor made bread), salads, curd and soft drinks. The naan was the staple food of the Afghans. The poor man ate just dry naan with a cup of tea while those fortunate cooked up some vegetables or meat to go with it. During meal times it was a common sight to see naan everywhere - bakery shops with naan hanging from hooks all over the glass front, delivery boys with stacks of naan loaded on their bicycles or balanced on their heads. The meal at Haji Baba was excellent and we felt good to have risked the kidnapping.

We decided to carry the cans of Coke that we got in the meal package, for the road. As we stepped out of the restaurant it was eerier than before. There were no vehciles on the road and the darkness was more ominous. I was about to open my can when my colleague pulled at my sleeve. I looked at him and then in the direction his eyes were focussed on. About 20 metres away under a tree the silhouette of an battle tank was visible. A ISAF soldier was atop the tank with his gun pointed straight at us. We were briefed earlier that the international military had a reputation of shooting at sight if they were suspicious. While driving on the road if a international military vehicle passed by, all other vehicles slowed down and gave way to let them pass. The scare of car bombs was such a big threat that at any suspicion the military could fire at the other vehicle. We realised the cans could look like grenades in the dark and the hiss of escaping CO2 after pulling out the lid could get us both killed. We slowly stuffed our hands and the pseudo grenades into our jacket pockets and walked quickly looking straight ahead. The roving eye of the soldier and his gun point followed us all the way. I turned back to look only after we were nearly at the turn towards our hotel. The tank was now barely visible in the dark. I realised we didn't have to do much in this country for adventure. Surely there was more to come.